Are Women Paying Alimony? Men: Do You Collect?

I thought California had the fifty fifty rule, does it apply equally to men and women or do only women get half the guy's ets? Are any of you women paying alimony and if so how did you screw that up? Are any men collecting? Do you know of women and men paying different amounts? Im not talking child support, you have kids too bad, but in this day and age when women work and get hired ahead of men and in many cases make more should women get alimony at all and just be entitled to child support if there are kids? What if the woman cheats should she still get a dime of alimony?Does the law make women pay the same as men?